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Thursday, December 5, 2013

GOT U BACK

GOT YOU(r) BACK

Before you read on please note the following two facts and keep them in mind throughout your read…

  1. According to me ANY relation be it father – daughter husband and wife or boss and employee is based on only TWO things Respect & Honesty – without one there is no substance left for the other & there is no third element in any relationship

  1. When I was a kid in the 80’s the worst things you could do at school was smoke a cigarette outside school hours.  We feared our parent’s disappointment and most of all we respected them irrespective of the fact we agreed with their perspectives or not.

Now also note that in those days I was considered to be a “Black Sheep” or what my friends would call a bad a$$. In those days when we had a “Phadda” it would seldom resort to physical violence and when it did only involved the two people concerned going at it for 3 minutes and then apologizing because the parents would step in and force a re-conciliation so basically things NEVER got out of hand. 

Today parents avoid their responsibilities and foolishly compensate their attention hungry kids with money to throw, 80,000 rupee iPhones and 2 million rupee cars to add a cherry on the pie the parents that love their kids tremendously add a goon squad of karai kay tattoo’s and a driver who is the major trusted domo to keep an eye on the kids.

(I purposely did not take pictures of these kids who were doing this because my intention is not to add to the problems that these 15 year old face rather to tell ALL parents to be on their guard)

I was at boat basin today at 10am where at least 100+ kids in school uniforms of CAS & BAY VIEW were hanging out like wandering sheep.  They must have given a Pak Studies paper but for sure they were in class 9 or 10 I was shocked to see that the coolest of these kids were hugging their drivers and body guards and having halwa puri with them.  When I sniffed the air I noticed why because the punjent smell of charas in the air.  Oddly enough these kids were having joints rolled for them by their drivers and body guards. 

The conversations consisted of how much money would be involved in going for a summer vacation to the north with buddies and how much they could score from the KPK region and how daddy's position would ensure they got delivery at homes though the pushtoon drivers / guards.  What totally floored me was that some kids were even talking about buying ecstasy for their “chicks” instead of a cellphone to get some “poondi” via twitter from suppliers of quality stuff from Dubai and UK.

What was refreshing to see that the middle-class still existed because they were the ones who had to leave to go home in shared transport and a mother or a relative would be picking them up.  Also these not so cool "poor" kids simply could not afford to indulge in such pleasures which burger parents supposedly do not know about. 

I am terrified today because when I was a kid my friends had my back and would stop me as much as they could from doing these ridiculous things.  Today we are breeding a completely false set of values into the next generation by giving them way too much freedom because these kids lie to their parents because they simply do not respect them.

Parents please don’t trust others in raising your kids and try to compensate your own responsibilities with expensive gifts.  If you can’t raise your kids poison them and get over with it but don’t burn their souls with negligence. 

This is a sign that judgment day is near because I predict out of common sense that if tomorrows elite adults will be crack heads we can expect to see wives, mothers, sisters & daughters for sale on OLX!


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